I can't get it right. Maybe I shouldn't.
Is it important to do things the right way? Seems like a simple easy yes, right? No? I'm going to say no.. and not just for fun. For real. There is this idea out there (and in here.. points to head and heart) that there is a right way to do things. Start simple. A right way to fold your laundry. A right way to prepare chicken. A right way to shoot a basketball. A right way to wash your hands. We love organizing ourselves around best practices and "right ways" to do things. I'm starting to see how even the word "right" has been super destructive in my life. Have you ever done an art project and then looked over at someone else's painting, and thought, "Aw man! I suck! Look at how good theirs is!" and then totally devalued what you had just done? I've lived like that. I'm always after the best way to do something, never enjoying where I am now and the fact that I will never be the best at anything and that...